Friday, 29 November 2013

Violence Against Women and Girls Happens in My Country

This blog also appeared here.


One of the myths that the WAGGGS 16 Days campaign has busted so far is the thought that ‘Violence against girls doesn’t happen in my country’. That sentiment is often applied to the UK, but it’s just not true.

Today Girlguiding UK, has launched their annual Girls’ Attitudes Survey which documents the views and opinions of girls and young women in the UK on a number of areas. This year’s report has built on their findings in previous years with even more startling statistics related to sexism and violence. The report, entitled ‘Equality for Girls’, found that sexual harassment is endemic across the country with 70% of girls aged 13+ reporting experiences starting at school. 75 per cent of girls aged between 11-21 feel that sexism is so widespread in the UK that it affects the majority of aspects of their life.
60 per cent of 11-21s have had comments about their appearance shouted at them at school, while 62 per cent have been shouted or whistled at in the street. 70 per cent of girls aged 13 and over report more intrusive forms of sexual harassment at school or college, including: sexual jokes or taunts (51 per cent), seeing images of girls or women that made them uncomfortable (39 per cent), unwanted sexual attention (28 per cent) and unwanted touching (28 per cent).
This research follows on from a separate report into relationship violence, ‘Care Vs Control’, that was launched a couple of months ago. You can download that report from http://girlsattitudes.girlguiding.org.uk/pdf/2025_Care_Versus_Control.pdf
All of this research points to the fact that violence against girls and young women is a very real problem in the UK. Whilst Girlguiding UK and WAGGGS have put programmes in place to build girls’ self-esteem and help them to realise what constitutes violence and where they can turn to for help, we also need to be looking at ways we can involve men and boys in the discussions in order to achieve the societal change.
You can find out more and read the full report at http://bit.ly/GirlsAttitudes and join the discussion today on Twitter with the tag #GirlsAttitudes.

Sunday, 10 November 2013

Learning to be Crafty

The Dream 



This morning I awoke suddenly from a stressful dream. I had been put on the spot and asked to explain to some new members of the gift shop team at work (I work in a historic house), how exactly somebody buying a jar of honey 'made a blind bit of difference to anything'. If you care to analysis my subconscious this might be indicative of the ongoing internal debate I have with myself about using heritage and tourism to make a difference to the world around me, or just that I have a meeting on this topic on Monday morning.

I did a good job of making up a plausible chain of connections in my unconcious mind, and touched on the subjects of heritage preservation, supporting the local economy and ensuring biodiversity. Obviously in dream land I had to use the contrast of this one jar of honey making all the difference between utopia and almost apocalypse, but I do believe decisions like these, especially in the prime gift giving season can make all the difference.

Christmas Shopping


Now, this is in no way a post about why you should buy from historic house gift shops (though the right products though charitable outlets do give twice), it's a post about rethinking our consumption and thus production habits to be sustainable. I believe we can give gifts this Christmas that are sustainable, create a better world, and give joy to the recipient.

I know that I, and millions from my generation and others, are struggling to make ends meet. Whilst the media and the government might report figures that to an economist mean that we're out of the recession, it is a fact that the majority of people are feeling the pinch of the rising cost of living. That is why this Christmas my loved ones will be getting things that are being reused, recycled and homemade.





**Spoiler alert: Friends and Family Members who will be getting presents from me should stop reading here, or fein surprise on the 25th December**



Getting Crafty


A homemade, recycled and reused present is really just dependant on one thing - getting crafty. Here is where I need to pay my regular homage to my background in Girlguiding UK. As a small child I would come home on a Thursday night and present my latest creation, usually something involving toilet rolls, coloured paper and, if I'd been really lucky, a good smattering of glitter. My ideas for Christmas this year are slightly more...refined, I have to say, but I do think my creative ways do date back to these formative years. As a young leader, and now as I leader I enjoyed thinking up different things for the girls to make and do, often on a tight budget.

Then there's the more technical skills that I'll be using this year. I learnt to pyrograph (burn designs onto wood) at a guide camp when I was 13, and a few years ago I used that skill to make some Peter Pan inspired planks for a Rainbow (5-7 yr olds) activity out of scrap wood that was lying around. Beyond Guiding I've some other community organisations to thank for the craft skills I've learnt.

A Nettle Obsession


As a teenager I volunteered regularly at a heritage site, Flag Fen in Peterborough. I spent a lot of time playing with stinging nettles and became proficient (or rather developed my party trick) in picking them and turning them into tea, soup and metres of string. Nettles are wonderful plants that don't often get the credit they are due. Their leaves contain more vitamins and minerals than spinach, their tea is settling to the stomach and the fibres were used by the Germans during WWII when cotton was in short supply. The plant also attracts a lot of wildlife to the area and so can be positively for biodiversity. Keeping it in check by using it as a crop can stop it taking over.

Despite my family's knowledge of my nettle obsession, I'd need to refine my craft futher to produce anything that they would enjoy receiving. One day I will learn to weave with nettle fibres, but for now I will look to other crafts. It was at Flag Fen that I got into pottery too as it was a core activity for school visits to create a pot based around a historical design or using natural materials to decorate. Whilst living in the USA last winter I went to a series of workshops at The Hive Comunity Center the first of which was a series of pottery classes that my partner bought me for Christmas. In 4 weekly sessions I produced 3 pots on a wheel and then glazed and fired them.

Get Kniting


Another workshop I went to at The Hive, was where I finally learnt to knit properly. Someone in Guiding had once showed me, and my sister had tried before, but I just couldn't get my head round it. Something in this workshop clicked, maybe it was thinking of the purl and knits as binary 1s and 0s or maybe it was the relaxing conversation and no pressure to do it well. All I can say is that I can now knit and have since experimented with ribs, bobble stitch and some basic cables.

My sister went vegan a few years ago and has subsequently never used several balls of sheeps wall that she'd previously acquired. I have now inheritated these and am well on my way to producing a number of different knitted presents for Christmas. Think along the lines of cable knit cushions and speckled pattern scarfs, rather than mishapen jumpers and scarfs - I'm not quite there yet!

Making Jam


Today, on our Sunday afternoon dog walk, we came across a wheelbarrow laden with Bramley apples. A hand written sign on the cart said 'Please help yourself'. My partner and I went blackberry-ing several times in September and October, but never succeeded in collecting enough or getting our act together to make decent jam. We had the idea to make preserves for present but not the means from our paved courtyard garden. Now we do.

The apples in the cart were stacked in carrier bags - a good piece of recycling to encourage people to take away a large quantity and not leave this windfall to rot. We brought home a carrier bag and this afternoon I have made our first batch of apple sauce.

My recipe for super easy apple jam/sauce (please note I am not a chef and like to just make up methods):

5 medium bramley apples
1/2 cup sugar
1/2 cup boiling water
1 tsp cinnamon
1/2 tsp giner
1/2 tsp nutmeg

Peel and chop the apple into 1cm chunks. Heat the water and sugar on the stove and add all the other ingredients. When the mixture creates a sticky skin and sets when placed on cold plate, take off the heat. Put into sterialised jars immediately and seal.

I will look up someone elses recipe and try out some chutney with some of the rest of the apples. If you've got some empty jars you'd like to recycle - let me know! And collecting free fruit doesn't have to just depend on the goodwill of neighbours, take a look at this fabulous map of where you can collect fruit in city and country alike: http://fallingfruit.org/

Overall I hope that my friends and family are understanding of our situation, and they've known my tendency for presents that make a political statement in the past, so even if my craft skills are quite up to scratch yet, they will enjoy the thought and effort that went into the present. After all, there's plenty more Christmases to come for me to hone my skills.

Sunday, 3 November 2013

“We Discover, We Grow” – The Next Stage



Today was the final day of the “We Discover, We Grow” exhibition I organised at Peterborough Museum. I’ve had lots of positive feedback over the course of the exhibition, and the girls who came to our activity day had a good time doing the trail and exploring the galleries. And now I want to take the project to its next stage – the photos might be up in a physical space anymore, but I want to share the images further through this blog.

Firstly, I have to say thank you to Diane and Deb who provided me with photographs. I also need to say thanks to my partner, Elizabeth, who wrote the majority of the labels and hand-out, my sister who took photos at our event, and my Mum for dropping things off and picking things up. And then there are the thanks to the museum staff who wrote us a great trail and for giving us the opportunity to display in the space in the first place. 

So now you can see the 18 images below, and the captions that accompanied them on the gallery walls. If these images motivate you to volunteer with Girlguiding, please visit www.girlguiding.org.uk

Energising!

This was the beginning of my journey that brought me to the United Nations. I met amazing people from around the world.

Subject: Young Women’s World Forum, 2010
Photographer: Ellen Pringle

Healthy Living

I conducted sessions on Asthma and Diabetes myth busting. The girls did a great job working together to learn new skills like the first aid shown here.

Subject: Activity Day, St Neots, 2011
Photographer: Pippa Gardner

Learning

At Minivate, girls ages 12 and over participate in skills, advocacy and outdoor activities – here they are learning sign language. Meeting all these young women teaches me so much about myself and about the world.

Subject: Minivate, Gilwell Park, 2011
Photographer: Sarah Sprigg

Fun!

I organised a music festival to celebrate our centenary. It was a hot weekend, so this activity allowed everyone to cool off whilst learning to work together to build rafts.

Subject: Gig in a Field, 2010
Photographer: Lauren Gardner

Healthy Relationships

Having been in a bad relationship, Guiding gave me the confidence to build new, healthy relationships and face new challenges. That, along with the taste for travel, meant I could take on the challenge of moving to a different country to be with my current partner.

Subject: Flowers from photographer’s partner, USA, 2013
Photographer: Pippa Gardner

Growing Audience

I spoke to 600 people and on a live webcast to launch a global campaign to end violence against women and girls. I want to bring this subject and solutions to other young women around the world and volunteer writing blogs and running social media.

Subject: WAGGGS World Conference, Edinburgh, 2011
Photographer: Becky Tompkinson

World Wide Family

I was inspired to see girls from all over the world working, having fun and learning together.

Subject: Centenary Camp, Harewood House, Leeds 2010
Photographer: Diane Card

Inspiring Curiosity

We give girls the opportunity to find out about the world around, and that can sometimes be found in their own backyards! These girls loved hunting and finding the different colours of nature in the grounds of Flag Fen.

Subject: Flag Fen, 2010
Photographer: Viv Hempsell

Nature Up Close

Many of the girls had never been this close to birds before, and they loved being able to both see and touch them.

Subject: Ramsey Rapture Foundation, 2007
Photographer: Diane Card

Love of the land

Our countryside inspires me with its scale of beauty and tranquility. Its awe inspiring.

Subject: Diane Card, 2010
Photographer: Diane’s husband

The Next Generation

I have had the privilege of helping to guide these Brownies on their way, yet they have helped to guide me too. They are such fun to be with and are constantly amazing you with what they say and do.

Subject: Brookside Brownies, 2011
Photographer: Diane Card

Lend A Hand

The Brownies, including Amelia, enjoy helping other people by raising money for charities. Amelia has developed both her confidence and abilities by taking part in the unit.

Subject: Amelia at Children in Need, Brookside Methodist Church, 2011
Photographer: Diane Card

Transformative Influence
 
Through Guiding, I saw this young lady develop personal skills and a sense of self worth that school was not able to provide. She won a national photography competition.

Subject: Winner with Chief Guide, 2009.
Photographer: Deb Sutton

The Power of Youth

I love seeing the journey made from girls to confident young women who take charge of their own events. It reminds me of my own journey.

Subject: Minivate, Milton Keynes 2009
Photographer: Deb Sutton

Pride of Place

For all who volunteer in their community (not just in Girlguiding) often over generations – they have shaped the modern world as well as the personal future of so many young people. Getting the Freedom of the City marked that.

Subject: Freedom of the City, Peterborough 2010
Photographer: Deb Sutton

Spiritual Growth

Nature, particularly fire and flame, always invoke a sense of spirituality within me, despite having no formal faith. The quiet times we spend alongside the natural world give me the chance to reflect in my own personal sense of purpose, values and direction.

Subject: Golden Jubilee Beacon Lighting, 2012
Photographer: Deb Sutton

Freedom in Safe Spaces

We have always given girls and young women a place to try new things and be themselves. As an only child, that freedom to explore within safe spaces was vital in my own development. 

Subject: Starburst for Brownies, 2010
Photographer: Deb Sutton

Ultimate Adventure

This was the culmination of my own confidence in gaining the skills to take girls and young women on residential experiences around the world. This photo is a constant reminder not only of the adventures I’ve shared, but also of the worldwide community of scouts and guides in which we belong. We have the power to change the world, one young person at a time.

Subject: Uzbekistan, 2010
Photographer: Deb Sutton